No one can precisely determine a day and time when a person realizes every aspect of their sexual identity. If you’re doing it right, you’ll come to find that you like a lot of different things, depending on how they’re presented, and if you’ve got a willing partner! A person’s sexual identity should evolve and change over the course of a lifetime.

But, sometimes we find ourselves stagnating in a role or an identity that we don’t fit into anymore, and sometimes that can disrupt certain aspects of your life. Sometimes, the person we’re committed to isn’t the one we’ve come to realize we need and want, in all ways.

Maybe it’s just a fantasy that you’ve kept to yourself. Perhaps you’ve introduced the idea to your spouse, only to be met with a resounding “NO”. Or, it’s something you want to find out before you try to open your marriage for some sexual strange. It’s no one’s fault, and it may not be everyone’s cup of tea. So, if somewhere along the journey you’ve discovered that you have a real lust for the same sex, that it’s something you just have to explore, there is a way!

Hear me out! Just because you’re in a hetero relationship, doesn’t mean you can’t play a little bit. I’m not talking straight-up infidelity, just some innocent exploration of a secret fantasy or a forbidden indulgence. All anonymously, between consenting adults.

Chat lines are a great way to meet new people, but they can offer so much more! These aren’t the phone sex lines of the old days, but more in the nature of adult teenage chat. You create a personal profile, you determine who you want to meet, and they’re all real people. Not a paid actor, but someone who genuinely knows what you’re going through, and wants to help you explore your lusts while they discover theirs! It isn’t just a fantasy, it’s your fantasy being played out in real life with someone you connect with!

It’s private, intimate, and there’s never a commitment to go any further than what you’re comfortable with! Plus, if you realize it was only a fantasy, it stays right there, in the past, while you keep moving forward with the life you’ve already built. But at least you got the answers you were seeking, and had some fun on the other side of the phone line!