When dating it’s healthy for both partners to know what each other wants in the relationship. In the early stages of a relationship you have to worry about if you actually like this person, how much you like them and what you want from them; and we’re sure your partner is thinking the same thing. Some people just go with the flow but that is the easy way out and can lead to a destructive relationship. You never want to lead your partner on thinking that you want the relationship to take a serious turn when you really don’t.

It’s better to be honest than to be malicious to your partner, there is no point in wasting your time and your partner’s time. There is no ribbon at the end of the finish line when you are dating without a purpose. It’s okay and common to have intentions only to wanting to be friendly, flirt and fuck. To avoid any confusion, go into the dating phase with set expectations of what you want out of this relationship.

Determine what exactly you want and are looking for when you start dating someone and keep an open mind. Do you just want to hook up? Do you just want a best girl “friend”? Do you actually want to be in this relationship or a relationship in general? These are all thoughts you should discuss when you first start dating someone new.

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